BILLY HAWES

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#97: Explaining a cemetery to a six-year-old


Howdy,

How can you ever really be ready to be a parent?

How can you be ready, at the drop of a question, to answer anything a six-year-old may think to ask as the world comes at us at the speed of our moving vehicle?

Driving along this morning, discussing the sight of the sun — hung clean as a pencil-drawn circle in the full fog, able to be eyed directly through the screen and unfrayed at its edges and looking more like a perfect full moon — we turned a corner in the country.

And Jasper asks, “What are all those?”

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#96: In search of rhythm


Howdy,

Last week …

Last week was … a rough one, of breaking back into routine.

To be fair, it was not terrible or horrific in any sense of real tragedy. Thus I’m not speaking in competition to or downplaying anyone who endured an actual “rough,” life-altering week involving harm or loss.

It was just a rough adjustment for us: the kind that has you exhausted and wishing you’d gotten more sleep and could get just a little bit more rest, for just minute

We’re in search of rhythm in our routine.

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#95: GPS


Howdy,

This evening we’re back to our GPS group meeting after a long break for the holiday season.

And it was a long break; if I remember correctly, it was pre-Thanksgiving not just the typical Christmas and New Year’s.

A few year’s back our church changed the name of its small group gatherings from Growth Groups to GPS, which stands for God, People, Service while also holding the intuition, or even intention, of guidance. Guidance we can get from God’s word and the people following Him and His way.

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#94: Too cool … Zamboni & ice!


Howdy,

Ice rink!


Sarah and Jasper on blades


Oh, yeah.

Good fun and exercise and it holds a sense of adventure in a place like Turlock.

Unfortunately with my struggles to keep my back not too upset with me — and it knows how to let me know when it is! — I haven’t been able to enjoy lacing ‘em up in a few years to get out on the ice. That just seems like a herniated disc scream waiting to happen, to me. That, or a bruise to the butt.



But Sarah has the skating bug and has very much attempted to be intentional about getting some use out of Turlock’s lovely outdoor ice skating rink. Feels like a treat to have it here. Splendid.

If you haven’t yet but want to give it a go, Fields of Ice LINK is only open for two more days — well, three, counting this evening, I suppose — so jump on it. Monday’s a holiday, so maybe you can squeeze in a Triple Lutz or something simple like that. I’d go for the Quad myself, but, you know … the back.

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#93: Kudos to Mr. Tim Challies


Howdy,

I tell you what, kudos to Tim Challies and his 4,823 consecutive days of blogging.

I mean, seriously?!

It’s hard to keep up. Day after day, without a stop.

I’ll be blitzing to get back on pace with my word count (did some fiction work today, so that was good, but I’m still a little behind, and I certainly don’t want it to run away from me much further …), but the consistency and production isn’t a simple exercise.

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#92: Puddle-Monkeys (on wheels)


Howdy,

Our boys (whose don’t?!) love puddle jumping.

Puddle jumping: seeking, splashing, scootering, soaking socks, swimming in shoes. We’ve, no doubt, talked about this before, Jasper and Titus finding the deepest, widest water collections around and placing themselves and whatever they may be wearing or riding right in the middle of the depths.

This time (or right now, since I’m typing a few notes on my smartphone, which was similarly utilized for the photography in this piece — on the fly …) I took a walk with Ti, putting his Christmas-gift Crocs to work!



I must say we liked these new rain boots (Crocs Handle It Rain Boot) so much we didn’t hesitate long before jumping online (puddle jumping of its own kind?) to place an order, so just last night a bright green pair was delivered for Jasper; he’s wearing them at school this morning. Just in time to get some good use as this long rain pattern continues on …

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#91: Three things, sad but true


Howdy,

Thought I’d share 3 things, sad but true.

Hard to believe, in fact, that these are all only from today, but I ran across a striking statement or idea morning, afternoon, and night.

First, I heard an insane statement from a sports fan this morning, talking decidedly and aggressively about not defecting a favorite chosen team. To effect he said, “You say you’re getting divorced … shrug. But you NEVER defect from your team. Come on, only LOSERS drop a team to change it out for one better. You don’t do that.”

He made the latter sound a lot like adultery and actual divorcing hardly news enough for a response.

The sacrilegious statement, the ridiculousness of it, made me start to get frustratedly upset: “How could you even compare?” Poor choice for an example, I thought.

Then, unfortunately, it made a little sense — at least by the numbers. If the divorce rate really is anywhere around 50 percent, as is so frequently and causally espoused, then likely less people who happen to follow sports abandon their Number One team then their vows. Sad (and stupid) but (anecdotally) true.

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#90: Free form drop


howdy

what else to write today

words like these raindrops
needed so this year

raindrops to soak
cried for when dry

air outside
always dripping
right now

just a drop of time
in the reign of drought

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#89: New semester


Howdy,

Sarah started her spring semester today.

I’m exhausted. 🙂

Goodnight.

 

Billy

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#88: Here it is


Howdy,

Before I forget to deliver on the promise to tell and show, here it is …

The Hawes Boys’s Christmas gift Sarah and I were so excited to give and have Jasper and Titus (and Riah) receive — and ride!


The garage reveal


Here we go! (Some of the smiles I was talking about when we bought it.)


Away they go …


The shiny green machine rumbles all over Mariposa’s foothill terrain.



And there’s still a secret the boys don’t know about yet. The Power Wheels Dune Racer Extreme (green with chrome wheels, oh yeah) has three gears: forward at 2.5 mph, reverse also at 2.5, and — the yet to be unlocked level — forward at 5 mph, HIGH SPEED.

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